This morning we attended Biltmore Baptist Church for worship. We have been attending for a while now since we moved to Fletcher, but today was the first Sunday we left Adley in the nursery.
Andrew and I had discussed how important it is to have an uninterrupted worship experience, so we finally decided to let go and leave Adley in the nursery.
BBC is soooooo big, so of course i was a little worried about crowded rooms and someone picking up Adley and taking her who wasnt supposed to, but as soon as we were educated on how their nursery opperated i had no worries and was super impressed. Since it was Adley's first time in the nursery we had to fill out a form with things like her age, allergies, parents, phone number's, etc. Then, she got her very own number and name in a sticker that went on her back. They also gave us a sticke with the same number on it to give the worker when we came to pick her up. so, the only people that could get her were the ones with the matching number, meaning us haha.That was so awesome. Plus, if your child got upset and they couldnt reach you on your phone, they would put up your childs number on the screen in the worship service. They also had sign in sheets in each room where you listed anything your child may do or need while you are gone. It was so awesome and so organized. I was actually excited!
She was fione when we left her, just playing with toys and getting some social time. The best part was, Andrew and I got to have a focused worship experience and left feeling so refreshed with the Holy Spirit. I mean lets get real, it's hard to focus when you have a squirmy 9 month old wollering you during worship!
After the service we went back to the nursery with our sticker and got Adley. She was crying when we got there, but the nursery volunteer said she had just started and had done great the rest of the time. I could tell she was sleepy, she always gets fussy then. I was just happy she was good 3/4 of the time plus got some time with other kids.
So, Andrew and I learned to let go and take some time for ourselves to have a good sunday experience, baby and interruption free. This was much needed and will surely be a weekly occurrence.
Parents: It is OK to leave your baby for an hour or two. Thats why the nursery is there! Get your God time in, really, because we know you cant take full advantage with a young baby or child. We learned 2 lessons today. 1-the nursery isn't so bad, just the seperation. 2-A distraction free worship environment is more fulfilling.